Welcome back the original #DatingDen co-host Christian Anderson!
Formerly ‘Mr. Quality Casual’, Christian is now in love and in a committed relationship. Woot!
In this episode, he shares some great tips that made him pursue his new love — that you YOU can use to get a great man to court and pursue you.
Simple but important things like…
Is it okay to ask him out, or is it better to wait till he comes to you?
What does it say about you and for the future of your relationship?
Should you plan the dates or is it better to let him ‘drive’?
Speaking of driving, Christian shares a great story about what his (now) girlfriend did after she drove to his house one night (pay attention!).
What if you’re thinking about him, should you text him — or is it better to wait till he reaches out to you (are you sensing a pattern here)?
How about that first kiss — and when should you have ‘the talk’ about what each of you is looking in the relationship?
Important stuff, right?
Join Marni and Christian Anderson for great tips you can use right now to get that great guy to woo you exactly the way you want him to.
Yay, so happy to see Christian back!! 🙂 I am dating a quality man at the moment, and it feels like he is wooing me, in his words and actions. We’ve had 3 dates so far, and he has been actively asking me when I am free, making suggestions for each date. He texts me every day after work to ask how my day is going, and calls me some days to firm up plans around our dates. I don’t contact him, I focus on my own life and wait for him to contact me. He is very polite, what I call Gentleman101, including opening doors, paying for meals and hesitating to kiss me out of respect. He even brought a bottle of water for me when we went for a drive on date 2. He brought me a mini rose plant when he came last night. So all of that feels great. On the other hand, some of the things he says are “TM” at this early stage, and makes it feel like he is trying too hard, like a salesman trying to sell a car, and that feels offputting. Not sure if I am physically attracted to him, and his sense of humour feels forced, not natural, so I am continuing for now to see if some of this behaviour is from nervousness or just who he is. And waiting to see if the chemistry kicks in for me. Usually I feel it by the first couple of dates. We have a lot in common, similar values and visions of what we want in a relationship, so it would be nice if we could be on the same page.
So glad to have Christian back for the Dating Den!! So Marni & Christian, what does “walking away” look like? Is it: no longer accepting any contact/communication, no longer explaining what’s not working or how this isn’t up to my standards, or having a conversation to explain why this isn’t for me and risk being talked into continuing something that really isn’t working. Im asking bc I know my pattern has been as a pushover and I get taken advantage of bc of that. How does walking away look like for a mature adult secure woman?
Thanks,
Regina
It is wonderful to see Christian back on the Dating Den! While I did learn some interesting things from the guest hosts, Christian remains my favorite–and the chemistry between him and Marni makes the segments even more enjoyable. Glad to have you back, Christian.