hich brings me to Steve Harvey’s New York Times best-seller, “Act Like A Lady. Think Like a Man, ” the book I have been reading while sitting on the sandy beach of Twain Harte Lake. In between swims to the huge rock on the other side of the lake, “rating” each other’s dives, and preparing meals for this clan each day, I have made time to relax. Read. And contemplate whether or not Steve Harvey’s point of view coincides with mine, and with the dating process I teach to women who attend the Dating With Dignity seminars and workshops I hold. And, most importantly, with what I have been observing this week, noticing if, in fact, Steve’s descriptions of men in love match the words and actions of the two men who sleep each night here with us in this cabin in the woods.

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