A man who’s squaring his shoulders toward you is interested in getting to know you. Is his foot pointed at you as well? Great. His legs will be spread slightly, and he’ll definitely be facing you.

Let’s say you’ve met this great guy and he’s HOT for you… Like… hot and in pursuit! He wants you bad and you kind of want to check him out BUT… he’s separated; not yet divorced. Is it ever okay to go out with him… or are these guys strictly off limits? What does it […]

So you’ve met a guy and things are going great… He can’t get enough of you and lets you know every chance he gets… The sex, the connection… it’s all working. Then all of a sudden without warning, your great guy seems to lose that lovin’ feeling… You don’t know what’s wrong but he’s not […]

This one is kind of my pet peeve… And I hear it from women ALL the time… They say, “Marni, I just don’t get it…” “I’m amazing… “I’m beautiful, I’m smart, I’ve got it all together and I have a great life… “WTF…Am I being too picky?” If this is you, don’t sweat it. Some […]

Let’s say you meet a man and he’s got it all going on… He’s handsome, has a job, he’s smart and he knows how to treat you… He’s a “looks good on paper” guy. But how do you know if he’s a Quality Casual Guy and not looking for a relationship… Or he really is […]

The idea is that you need to find someone who adores you… and in turn, you also adore. But initially, it means finding someone who gives you what you’re looking for without having to force the relationship to bloom.

We hear it all the time — men are attracted to you when you are in your feminine energy! But what does that really mean? Is there a standard definition… is there a specific look that makes men sit up and go… “That’s it!” Can you be feminine in your own way? Is it long […]

Maybe you’ve had some crappy exes, and experienced a lot of hurt, but you don’t want to give up on love (yeah!) and now you’re wondering… “How can I trust men again?” The first question you need to answer is — do you trust yourself? Not trusting men is a pattern borne out of your […]

As frustrating and desperate as it can feel at times, selecting the person you’re going to share your life with should require more discerning thought than most any other decision you make in your life. It is the rest of your life, after all. Here are two simple reasons why.

If you’re going to date with dignity (and I hope you are)… You need to talk about sex, monogamy and even STD’s… BEFORE you have sex, right? Is there a good time to have ‘the talk’, or even a bad time? Should you make a special date to have the conversation? What do men think […]